Top 10 Things You Should Not Reveal On Facebook

A single picture, post or comment on Facebook can rob you of your dream job or cause you problems and headaches. These are increasingly used as a talent sourcing and reference check-point. Irresponsible Facebooking, tweeting or any compromise of social media hygiene could lead to some of the largest rejections, issues or problems you will face in life.

There are already many cases where offer letters have been withdrawn, or employees have been fired after social media revealed unpleasant details. So do yourself a favor and refrain from posting the following Top 10 things.

 

1. Password Hints

password hints

If you’ve got online accounts, you’ve probably answered a dozen different security questions, telling your bank or brokerage firm your Mom’s maiden name; the church you were married in; or the name of your favorite song. Have similar things on the information page of your Facebook profile? You’re in for a royal treat by giving crooks an easy way to guess your passwords. Big NO NO!

 

2. Home Addresses

Home Address

Facebook is a great way for organizing meet-ups with friends, but listing your private house party on there is not a very good idea. Unless you’re up for the kind of shindig that involves hundreds of party crashers  ripping up the carpet, spilling booze all over and doing away with your family valuable. To be honest, we would have thought people wised up by now after the dangers of Craigslist were exposed, but I still see this happening and people are still posting their personal information on Facebook

 

3.  Vacation Messages

Vacation Messages

Time for a bit of holiday in the sun? Good for you because you deserve it. Just try not to sign off for your trip with a status update along the lines of: ‘Yippee! Off to France for 10 days tomorrow!’ It’s not that we’re jealous (honest), it’s just that putting that kind of information online is little better than slapping a ‘not home for weeks’ poster on your front door. Even if you’ve taken the sensible precaution of not including your address on your Facebook page, it can still be easily found elsewhere online, especially with the new graph search.

Facebook knows who you are, what you’re interested in, where you go on the web, what apps you use, and more with this new graph search. However, other companies have bits and pieces of these data sets. LinkedIn knows your resume, Google knows your web searches, Twitter knows who and what  you follow, Apple and Amazon have your all credit card number on file, and your phone’s OS maker knows what apps you’ve downloaded. This is CIA of 21 st century. Who your real-life friends are, though, is Facebook’s domain. Nothing is every private.

There’s plenty of noise about all this. Some people blindly accept most requests they get, while others send them to anyone they meet once, and all the connections and networks grow over the years and quadruple. Still, if you want to jumpstart a social app, Facebook’s Find Friends feature is very valuable. It can be the difference between an empty feed and low retention, and a vibrant, addictive feed teeming with content from people you care about.

 

4.  Facebook Games

Farmville

Time for a reality check. No one cares that you found a golden egg in your imaginary cowshed or that your cafe is growing super-great or farm is multiplying after being watered by good friend. In fact, people care so little, there are now even browser plug-ins available that will prevent Facebook game updates from showing in Facebook feeds. If you’re going to waste your time on Farmville or similar games, fair enough. Just turn off the auto-updates, please?

 

5. Confessions

 confessions

This is not the place to make a big, large confession. You may hate your job, lie on your taxes or be a really good illicit drugs, but this is no place to confess it. Employers commonly peruse social networking sites to determine who they will hire — and, sometimes, who to fire.

Need proof? An emergency dispatcher was fired in Wisconsin for revealing drug use; a waitress got canned for complaining about customers and the Pittsburgh Pirate’s mascot was dumped for bashing the team on Facebook.  All in all, an estimated  8% of companies fired someone for “misuse” of social media.

The most appalling story?  A mother of three  was canned for posting on Facebook. She was fired after her employer claimed she violated the company’s social media policy by posting that the Harbin Clinic could not treat her sick child. Like millions of other, Roberson joined Facebook to keep in touch with family and friends.

 

6. “Jesus, I’m lonely”

Jesus I'm Lonely

You may never get a reply from Jesus, but you will have a lot of people questioning your ethics. Should you want to post this, be our guest, but you will never get answers you are seeking. You may get some creepy people stalking you instead.

 

7.  Partying

Partying

A friend of mine has a tendency to sue people. Once she sued Shoppers Drug Mart for improper stocking. A bottle fell on her foot and she could not walk on it for a week. That did not stop her from posting pictures where she was seen walking, partying and having a good time with friends.

8. Borrowed Images

Borrowed Images

An overworked journalist on a tight deadline was looking for a big story about a natural disaster. He finds the perfect photo of said disaster on Twitter (could be Facebook as well, especially with graph search). Without asking the owner, he reposts it on his news organization’s website and gives full credit to the photographer .

Not so fast. In a landmark copyright judgment on Monday, a Manhattan district judge ruled that two major news outlets infringed on the copyrights of Daniel Morel, the photographer whose horrific images of the 2010 Haiti earthquake were published to various news organizations, without his permission.

If you don’t want others taking your images, don’t post them on Facebook, Twitter or any other social media site for that matter.

 

9. Your Birth Date

Birth Date

While it might be nice to hear from Facebook well-wishers on your birthday, you should think twice before posting your full birthday with the year of birth. Scholars advise that revealing your exact birthday and your place of birth is like giving out your financial security to thieves. Furthermore,  researchers recently discovered that thieves could reconstruct social security numbers using an individual’s birthday and place of birth. Cyber theft, identity theft, you name it!

 

10. Flirtatious Pictures

Flirt Pictures

 Flirty pics tend to change hands and get re-posted very quickly and not for any good reasons. You might think your pic is for your sweetie’s eyes only, but once you send it, you lose total control over where it ends up. Jealous exes  may share, and proud boyfriends and girlfriends have been known to show off.

 

 

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