Top 10 Ways You Can Unknowingly Hurt Someone

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“I am so sorry! I dint mean it. Hey, please don’t take it serious huh! Dude…I was just kidding!” No one can hold back themselves without using these phrases. They have become part of our lives. Sometimes we hurt people knowingly or unknowingly. So it is good that we should have some limitations for everything no matter whatever it is. Just remember losing good people is easy but getting them for lifetime is difficult. Here are top 10 ways you unknowingly hurt someone.


1. Possessiveness:


As mentioned earlier it is due to over love and care. This is generally seen between lovers and newly married couples. The husband or wife thinks that they are made for each other. Until now it is fine but they go further and start believing that they are only for each other and no where connected to the word. This is also fine because both think the same, but the actual problem starts when only one feels like this and other doesn’t. The husband has his social life so as wife if she sacrifices and be as a housewife it doesn’t mean that he should do the same or vice verse. Here they get possessive and hurt each other unknowingly. That leads to breakups etc. Hence passiveness is the soul cause of all this. This is even seen in friendship if you are a over possessive friend you control your other friend unknowingly she/he is helpless they are adjusted to you. So this is how you might hurt your own buddy unknowingly.


2. Involuntary physical movements:

involuntary physical movements

This happens every day in your life, now this does not hurt psychologically but it hurts physiologically. You get up suddenly and stamp some one’s leg it is not done purposefully but still you end up hurting them physically. In same way in many games, you are playing and you will hit the ball very hard it hurts the opponent team mate she/gets injured or hurt. It is part of the game but still without your conscience you hurt them. There is no one in this world that might have hurt people in this way. It happens in everyday life, at streets, home, college, game field, roads, anywhere! It is very hard to get rid of it. And the usage of smileys and exclamations, the emoticons speak better than texts. Exclamations can convey that you are harsh, rude and stubborn! Even the short forms is misunderstood as well. You never know how this much happening medium can affect others. The only way in which you can resolve these problems are maintain and follow some etiquette of cyber/text language.


3. Wrong texts and phone calls:

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This happens very often. For instance you had a big fight with our friend and you come back home you know that it was only because of you. So you take textual medium to resolve your problem. First you type something and then you realize that is not needed but unknowingly you send that message and the receiver your friend is disappointed to see a text like that from you. The worst part is you still do not know that you have sent it.This ends up hurting your friend. And one more thing usage of language. We use harsh language in text compared to any other. And you end up hurting just by using capital letters. Yes! Usage of capital is offensive and rude when it comes to cyber language and text language.


4. Over love:

over love

You might have seen many films based on this concept. Over love leads to “possessiveness” which will be detailed in Top 1 reason. If you over love someone it leads to the agony and irritation. You never know what do you do when you over love and you start ruling them and that makes you beloved to lose their individuality and hurts them big time. The best example is a film in Telugu “Bommarillu” starring Siddarth where the father Prakash raj love his son to the core and starts ruling siddu’s life and career, in that way the son can’t go against his father and can’t adjust with what father says as well. The father hurts the son unknowingly with over love and care. There so many real stories among st which this film was inspired from.


5. Taking it for granted:

taking it for granted

Never take anyone for granted. Each one has their personal lives and dreams. This kind of perception that they are fine with whatever you do and taking them for granted is not at all healthy in either way. For instance you are going for a party thinking that your best friends will join you. But it is your courtesy to call them or else they will surely be hurt. And this TFG also relates to ignorance you might have multiple friend gangs. Make sure that you won’t mix them up if so then give equal importance and priority to each of them.


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