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Finding out that a girlfriend or wife is cheating on you can be a sickening thought to many men.  There is so much publicity about men cheating on women, especially celebrity men, the fact that women sometimes cheat on men is just simply in existent in mainstream media. If you suspect that your girlfriend is being unfaithful, look for a combination of tell-tale signs and clues we list today. However, keep in mind that there is no definitive sign of cheating other than catching your girlfriend in the act.

Controlling the anger:

There are ways to learn to control negative emotions and get rid of the hurt, pain and suffering you now face, due to cheating in your relationship.

The brain is truly an startling device. It is possible to teach the brain to react in certain ways and in horrific situations, in same fashion as it is possible to teach the body to move in new ways for example while learning to dance, to ride a bike etc.

The most important thin to remember: What you are going through is a normal reaction after betrayal and heart breaker. Cheating in a relationship is one of the worst tragedies a man will ever face in life. If you did not feel the way you do after your spouse cheated on you, there would be something wrong with you and your relationship.

It can be that your spouse is feeling genuinely sorry for what has happened and wishes to continue the relationship with you after promising that cheating will never happen again. But even in this situation you cannot feel the same as you felt before towards your spouse. The memory of the betrayal keeps coming back to you on daily basis and is causing you strong mental pain, depression and anxiety. You want to know all the details related to the affair and to the Lover, even though hearing about those things hurts you even more.

1. She pays more attention to her appearance.
Women who start a new relationships often become obsessed with their looks. According to Top 10 List, it is almost certain that your girlfriend is cheating when she suddenly changes hairstyles, starts wearing new scents, buys new clothes (especially sexy lingerie) and starts working out more at the gym (never did before) Assuming that she hasn’t started a new job or had some other big change in her life, take these changes as signs.

2. She becomes vague about her whereabouts
Studies show that it is very common for unfaithful spouses to be very cold about their whereabouts and activities and will make up preposterous excuses to make up for it. If your girlfriend or wife suddenly has difficulty giving an answer about where she was or what she was doing during the day, it may be a sign that she’s seeing someone else.

3. She is more argumentative and irritable towards you.
Cheating girlfriends or wives for that matter may become highly argumentative, nit-picky and defensive.  Top 10 List warns that a girlfriend who starts arguing over the small, nitpicky things may suggest that she  has been cheating and looking for a way out of your relationship.

4. She is not interested in having sex with you.
The amount of sex a couple has may decrease for many reasons, including busy schedules, depression, stress, and lack of goodness in life. However, infidelity may also be a major factor. Studies show that because emotional attachment is the key for many women in their sexual relationships, some cheating girlfriends or wives may exhibit less desire for their men because they feel emotionally removed from them.

5. She started working more.
A classic sign of infidelity is when your girlfriend or wife starts working more–a lot more than she did before. Research shows that this suspicious change in work schedule can manifest itself in different ways: leaving the house earlier to go to work; coming home later than typically; or claiming to have many business dinners (a load of bologne). Take note:  do you see a pattern to these extra working hours? Even so, that may be a sign that something is wrong. Keep in mind that if the job is new or she has recently received a promotion, there is no need to immediately suspect that she is seeing someone else.

In December of 2011, 29,000 people in 36 countries were interviewed by Durex, the condom manufacturer. They found that the following people were the most likely to cheat and commit adultery. All in all, 50-65% of husbands and 40-55% of wives have an affair before they are 40.

1. Nigerian women:

62% of Nigerian women are unfaithful. Recently Major Chitsiko, a soldier, committed suicide after his wife cheated on him. The couple was estranged. Also in November 20011, Erelu Tola Solomon, a social elite in Lagos and Abuja, decided to ruin her 25 year marriage after having sex with a Lagos businessman.

2. Thai women:

59% of women living in Thailand admitted to cheating on their husbands. The rules seem more relaxed in Thailand than they are in the West. Many husbands even allow their wives to commit adultery.

3. British women:

A UNLV article on infidelity and extramarital affairs noted that Britain have cases at a rate of 42%, The country experiences a high rate of women cheating.

4. Malaysian women:

33% of Malaysians are known to cheat. 39% of the Malaysian women, in particular, are known to betray their marriage vows. It was also revealed that Malaysian men have on average 3 sex partners.

5. Russian women:

33% of Russian women are known to be cheaters. Interestingly enough, the adulterer is not the one to blame in Russia. The finger points towards the person who  kindles the affair. The fingers also point to women and that has been a century old tradition for 100s of years.

Elderly couples increasingly are getting divorced well into their 60s, 70s and even in their 90s. Most recently a number of them made headlines and should be entered into the Guinness World Records. I guess these 10 couples do not believe in till death do we part.

1. Bertie & Jessie Wood (98):

In 2009, a British couple became the oldest couple to divorce. After 36 years of marriage they decided to call it quits, 2 years shy of their 100th birthday. It is still unclear as to why the couple split. This is even sadder given that Bertie Wood passed away almost a year later.

2. Antonio (99) & Rosa (96) C.:

A 1940s affair causes one couple to go to splitsville in December of 2011 after 77 years of marriage. Feeling guilty she confessed the whole thing to her husband. He was unable to forgive her despite the elapsed time since the betrayal took place.

3. South Korean Couple (94/83):

The 94 year old man and his 83 year old wife became Korea’s oldest divorcees in March of 2009. The source of the irreconcilable differences was the humiliation she suffered with 6 of her husband’s children from a previous marriage. He claims that the marriage fell apart after she had an affair.

4. Al & Tipper Gore (62):

After 40 years of marriage this couple called it quits. This comes a decade after both stood on the podium kissing graciously at the Democratic Convention.

5. Georg Meister (81) & Ruth Meister (83):

Ruth divorced Georg after 60 years of marriage after he was caught having a love affair with mistress at work. The mistress was 30 years younger than Georg and the affair was revealed when the curtains were not pulled at work.