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If you find out that your partner has any of these top 10 common sexual fantasies, there’s no need to repeatedly hit the panic button.  It is not necessarily a sign that he wants to act it out in life. Rather, it’s precisely because these male fantasies are considered to be “naughty” or “taboo”.

It doesn’t matter what your fantasy is – the point is that we all have them and they may not be as bizarre as you think. Even if your private fantasy isn’t on the list, it doesn’t mean there are not thousands of other men with the same exact fantasy.

The main thing to remember is to be open-minded and understand that nothing is normal. Every being is unique in his/her own way. If you have another fantasy to share, be sure to comment on our blog. We will happily add the fantasy based on consensus.

1. First Time:

Almost every guy has dreamed or fantasized about what their first time would be like in a company of a girl. Many common questions they would ask: would it hurt? would it be pleasure? would I like it? Given that most men would give up sex for their mobile phones, who knows what goes through their minds.
 
2. Being  A Woman:

It’s not overtly uncommon for men to have such a fantasy. Don’t press the panic button right away. This is usually because the guy is insecure about his relationships and is still testing the waters. Most men before marriage are like that.

3. Gay Sex:

Whether they admit it or not, some men desire to be involved with other men and not always do these fantasies have to be sexual in nature. If your man has this fantasy, don’t be worried or upset, it doesn’t automatically mean that he is gay or bisexual. He may just want to experiment or may just want you to try it out with him.

This is a touchy subject for men, be mindful of the kind of relationship you are in and what type of man you are dating or married to. And furthermore, NEVER put your man down or insult him for disclosing the truth to you.

4. Participating in Orgy:

I like referring to the scene Eye Wide Shut where Tom Cruise ends up at a high-class orgy with nothing but a sea of gorgeous women in masks when speaking about this subject. Having loads of women there for the taking is nothing short of heaven for men.

5. Anal Sex:

This is a fantasy that most men find hard to speak about because their partner is typically scared or finds it a dirty or repulsive chore. It should be a fantasy that is lived under the right circumstances and should be done with a lot of trust in hand.

Should this be your fantasy, take it slow and don’t push. It may come naturally without any rush. With the right communication, anything could be possible.

Thanks to the success of “Game of Thrones,” HBO is grabbing hold of the fantasy reins and steering the network toward another adaptation of a best-selling fantasy novel. This time, the network is developing a series based on Neil Gaiman’s best-selling novel “American Gods.” While we’re anxious to see this sci-fi-fantasy-horror blend fleshed out on screen, we have a list of other adaptations we’d like to see. Here are our top 10 fantasy novels/series we’d most like to see adapted into a television series.

1. “The Wheel of Time” series by Robert Jordan

It goes without saying that this sprawling epic tale should hold the number on slot of fantasy series we’d like to see adapted into a TV series. Robert Jordan’s “The Wheel of Time” series is one of the greatest epic fantasy series of all time, with over 50 million copies sold internationally. Considering Jordan’s in-depth storytelling that spans across 14 books and includes over 2,000 named characters, any network would have their work cut out for them to make this a digestible series.

2. “Dragonlance Chronicles” by Margaret Weis and Tracy Hickman

While the “Dragonlance Chronicles” is one the most popular shared-world concepts out there, with close to 200 novels in the franchise, the series is ripe with possibilities. We’d like to see a show that focuses on the Chronicles trilogy so we can see the world of Krynn come to life. Oh, and dragons. We want to see lots of dragons.

3. “The Elenium” series by David Edding

With just three novels in the series, it wouldn’t be too difficult for a network to adapt these books into a worthwhile television series. Filled with splendidly flawed characters, this modern fantasy has enough substance to create an immersive world filled with plenty of swords, thieves, and hypnotically beautiful queens.

4. “Farseer Trilogy” by Robin Hobb

This emotionally rich trilogy would make an excellent television series that’s packed with a carefully constructed plot, realistic dialogue, and a fresh take on the fantasy genre that doesn’t leave you feeling like you already know the story. What we find so compelling about this story is Hobb’s ability to break free from many of the clichés crowding this genre.

5. “The Saga of Recluce” by L.E. Modesitt Jr.

While “The Saga of Recluce” follows familiar ground as a coming-of-age good vs. evil fantasy, the treatment of magic feels fresh and the characters are entertaining. The best part about this book being adapted into a series would be our ability to enjoy the story without drowning in the author’s tick of using an ocean of ellipses.

This should come as no surprise. Both male and female fantasies are unconstrained by real life demands. Men have a flourishing mind and are provided with insight when fantasizing. Fantasies are, however, different and individualized. Not all  male fantasies are therefore the same. As such, here are top 10 common male fantasies.

1. Hot Looking Girl:

How many men can say they have not fantasized about a hot looking girl? Many younger men have their rooms filled with posters of girls in bikinis. Many would even admit they wish they could date a girl that is similar to the model on their wall.

2. Older/Younger Women:

It is a known fact that younger men fantasize about older women at some point in their life. Older men, on the other hand, fantasize about younger women and going back to their youthful days.

3. Giving Up Control:

In Western society, men are typically expected to take initiative, it should not come as a shock that many of them fantasize about doing the exact opposite and completely giving up control to a woman who dominates them. Fantasies involving this can be as  simple as being lazy in bed to being tied up and ravished by a hot female.

4. Opposites:

Men sometimes are not happy with their lives. They wish that their partner would be the exact opposite of who they are. Most importantly, they look at women and partners in parts. So for example….if a woman has short legs…men would fantasize about their women having long legs.

5. First Time:

Men and women are adventurous; unless they are asexual. This is a common fantasy both genders have. If no one ever fantasized about these things, no one would care to have kids or be legally married. In Western countries, you are not officially married until you consummate.

Recent studies show more and more men expect to have threesomes and want to known what it is all about.  This is the kind of threesome  pairs men and two exceedingly hot girls for all night fun.  Your girlfriend suddenly getting the urge to not only have sex, but also invite her hot friend to take part in the  whole action; exciting.  The girlfriend keeps you cool and confident, while her friend makes it so exotic and you feel as though you are being more than your naughty self .

We all have fantasies. Some of our fantasies run wild while we’re kids. When we become adults, the fantasies linger with us. Who would not like to fantasize about a dream and fairy tale wedding? Better yet…who would not dream about winning the lottery and not going to work? We all do.

Here is a list of top 10 fantasies women have. Raise your hand if you recognize 1 or 2. Remember what Freud once said: only unsatisfied people have sexual fantasies.

1. Winning the lottery:

75/100 women fantasize regularly about winning the lottery. Many of them admit that they play weekly lotto to advance their chances of winning. Some have also grouped together to multiply their chances of winning.

2. Prince-Charming:

85% of the survey unmarried women fantasize about marrying a prince charming with the right physique. Some even desired to find a husband that will let them stop working.

3. A Day in the Life of a Man:

40/100 women wondered and fantasized about what it would be like to live a life of the opposite sex. They tried to understand men’s actions and tried to understand why they act the way they do. This situation is similar to Beyoncé’s song…If I Were a Boy….

4. Lesbianism/Bisexualism:

Many women also admitted that they fantasized about being a lesbian. These individuals were all straight; dating or married. I believe it was just the social influences and stereotypes which brought out such fantasies. They agreed.

5. No Responsibilities:

Women have a huge load of work to do. Many of them work, care for kids, husband and the house. They cook, wash, clean and read bedtime stories to their kids. When feeling tired, some women dream about being free of all responsibilities.

Use your imagination just a little bit: Imagine spending your vacation budget on redoing your own backyard as your own private resort. If you live in the city, or even more importantly, if you live in the suburbs and commute to the city, you need to get out in the country. You need fresh air, the warmth and fragrance of a wood fireplace, the comfort and satisfaction of simple food, and the amazing luxury of pure silence. When was the last time you had ice in your eyebrows? When was the last time you got outdoors and just played, felt the exhilaration of wind in your face, and got really-really hungry from being outside all day? This list looks at some really wild fantasy retreats that you could retire to for a weekend.

1. Coronado, California…in January

Always near the top of every travel magazine’s list of the world’s top ten beaches, Coronado, California sits just across the bay from San Diego—easily accessible, and frighteningly affordable during the winter months. “Of course,” you think to yourself, “who goes to the beach in January?” Answer: the Coronado locals know what the brochures don’t tell you. In June and early July, Coronado lives under “June gloom,” cold marine air that burns-off only for a couple of hours in the afternoons.

2. The Wine Country…any wine country

The best wine grapes do not spring forth abundantly just anywhere. You cannot grow a vineyard like you would grow your front lawn or a pine tree. In fact, grapes share your climate preferences—warm, sunny days and cool nights, neither too humid nor too dry. Not a surprise that grapes thrive where you would—just an hour from San Francisco, on sunny Italian hillsides, on beautiful Spanish slopes, and just a few hours from Paris.

3. A Greek Island

What more need anyone say? It’s one of those magical, mystical, stuff-of-myth-and-folklore Greek Islands. You escape there, living in comfort, style, and delicious anonymity.

4. An artist’s garret or loft in a big city

Take a sketchbook, fresh pencils and charcoals, a turtleneck sweater and beret, and just disappear. Let your imagination guide you and see what develops. Even if you cannot draw a stick figure, you still can have fun imagining your life as an artist. Not every artist must suffer or starve.

5. A Tropical Paradise

Of course, you want an ocean at your front door, palm trees and lush, fragrant tropical flowers all around. You want to get so suntanned people won’t remember your name, and you want to wear nothing but your bathing suit, your sundress, or just your skin all day and all night for all the time you are running away from work, winter snow, and the harrows of your everyday life.