It is relatively easy to fall head over heels to your man, but where will you end up if this happens before you meet Mr. Right Guy? After one too many failed relationships, women tend to develop warped archetypes of dating. In this article, we are going to take a look at the top 10 misplaced dating notions of women which consequently compromise whatever future one may have with someone else.
1. Second Fiddle
The eager-to-please and all too accommodating dater who ends up taking the backseat to her partner’s career and golf bag is the person who has lost all sense of reality and self worth after going through the same experience in previous failed relationships.
2. Obligatory Sex
There are women who are the epitome of real-life Sex in the City character. These are the women who use sex for control, for enjoyment and for practically anything except for a healthy and balanced relationship.
3. Soul Mate
She is your inveterate romantic. She looks at every date with a guy as the “destined one.” She will insist on going into a serious relationship at the drop of the hat.
4. Drama Queen
This dater is always ready for any challenge, welcomes competition and ends up with tragic fallout. Her love story is one great collection of sob stories of relationships which did not reach first base.
This dater may also be called the “bag lady.” She is the type who will always dwell on the past and will always bring an emotional baggage to her next relationships with other guys. She has the tendency on venting all her pent up emotions from past relationships on the present one.
6. Doting Mother
These are the type of women who have developed an eschewed perception of their role in their relationships with their men. They have the tendency to take too much space of the relationship and take over the affairs affecting their partners and end up like a doting mom to their men.
7. Boa Constrictor
Others even go overboard and end up as the “anaconda.” These are the women who excessively impose on their men. These are the women who have the tendency to hold sway in the relationship and will not leave any stone unturned just to have their way in a relationship.
These are the type women who can’t seem to find any use of the “you” and the “we” in their relationships with men. They are too preoccupied with what they personally believe and want from the relationship that they won’t entertain and consider anything that their men will suggest or request.
These are the women who refuse to see and accept reality. They are constantly living in a fantasy and they maintain the pretense that what they have in a relationship are all beds of roses. These are the women that do not know how to run from a relationship even if it is already hurting them emotionally, physically and financially.
10. 100% Perfect
These are the women who are always seeking something from their relationship and every time they meet with a man, they will always find faults and shortcomings in the relationship.