Even though dating is not exactly easy, many men are out there looking for that special woman who matches their expectations so perfectly that they will never want to be alone ever again. However, how you get to meet that person and start a relationship with her does not follow a predefined pattern. Since dating brings up several aspects you did not know about yourself, you may even come to discover that your soul mate is someone you would have not expected. It could be the fact that men and women have different opinions about how to choose their life partners, but during your search for that special someone, you will encounter several types of women whom you should avoid.
1. The overly attached women
Since every man (and woman for that matter) requires his own space and time alone, the last thing you want to do is get involved with somebody who cannot offer you this, especially following the first few dates. Therefore, if you find yourself in the unpleasant situation where you are reluctant to answer the phone because of her consistent calls about nothing at all, it is better not to get involved in the relationship. The phone calls and inopportune visits will not cease and will only get worse in time.
2. Women obsessed with marriage
While you might like to think that the current society has surpassed the traditional ideas about the role of men and women, it is necessary to mention that there are still plenty of girls out there infatuated with the idea of marriage. Such women usually plan their lives in detail, including the collar of the dog they will own and the names of her future children. If you are looking for a healthy relationship, then a girl mentioning the topics marriage and starting a family before you even get to know her is not your best option.
3. The beauty with no brains
Granted, all men have been tempted by the beauty of a woman at some point in their lives. However, if she is simply unable to carry out an intellectual conversation, they will gradually lose interest in her. Since these women are prone to misunderstand most of your words and come up with their own interpretations, you can be certain that her beauty will not compensate for the numerous embarrassing moments you will experience with her.
4. Women who are always looking for a fight
In spite of the fact that all couples fight and sometimes arguments are practically impossible to avoid, you should make sure that the woman you are dating is not constantly looking for that. The good news is that this type of women is usually easy to spot, since it is very likely that she will start an argument out of the blue even from the first few dates. And, the truth is that the fighting will never cease and dating such a girl will just make you very unhappy in the long run.
5. The crybaby
The reason you should never date a woman who resorts to tears in order to get things done her way stems from the fact that this approach represents a form of manipulation, more precisely emotional blackmail. Going out with a crybaby means that you will be forced to ward off such obnoxious moments that get even more ridiculous over time as the relationship deteriorates. Therefore, if you want preserve your mental sanity, it is best to stay clear of them.
6. Women cheating on their boyfriend/husband
If you are planning to get involved with a married women or a girl who is currently in a relationship, then it is necessary to mention that chances are she will eventually cheat on you as well. Even though dating this type of lady will not always end with her cheating on you, more often than not this is how the relationship will end. To put it simply, because she’s willing to do it in the first place, you are assuming a great risk of getting hurt.
7. The elitist
The elitist women can be considered the opposite of the aforementioned beautiful but ultimately dumb girl (those whom it is impossible to carry out an elevated conversation). In addition, the similarity with the said category comes from the fact that you will constantly feel embarrassed when she opens her mouth not because of the things she says, but rather due to the fact that she’s constantly talking down to you or acting condescending. Considering that a successful relationship revolves around concept of the mutual happiness for both parties, it should be more than obvious why you should not date an elitist.
8. Gold-diggers
You have seen this stereotype in numerous movies: a beautiful, young woman involved in a relationship with an old and incredibly rich man does not end well, especially for the guy. Therefore, in the eventuality that she shows too much interest in your work activity (particularly the paycheck part) and she always expects expensive gifts from you, you should run away: this woman is interested in your money and definitely not you. Do you really want a Kim Kardashian on your case?
9. Women who can’t stop talking
Most men enjoy a date with a sociable girl with whom they can joke as well as conduct a normal conversation. On the other hand, nobody enjoys being around the so-called “chatterbox”. Even though the relationship may work for a few days, the truth is that it will get very annoying very soon. The sheer fact that she is talking about anything from what she had for breakfast to the newest community gossip will just want to make you wear earplugs around her.
10. Women with strong feminist beliefs
Despite the fact that it is incredibly difficult to get a feminist to go out with you, sometimes the impossible happens. However, this is usually a bad idea since you will be on the receiving end of constant criticism about trying to demean the role of the modern woman in the current society. Because the dates will resemble a muscle confrontation between you two, being around a feminist will mostly leave you with a complex of gender inferiority.
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