As they say, actions speak louder than words. Gifting in the same way, is one action your loved ones really love. What better way to express what you feel by a token that says that, all by itself?
Talking about girls, Gifts and Surprises : Two words that get a girl excited and chirpy at almost any point of the day, or night, or whenever But then you need to tread very cautiously. These words make her enthusiastic to beyond you can imagine, and raising her hopes and then going for a wrong gift might not only spoil her mood, your relationship might get into danger as well.
So before you go out of ideas, or go for cheesy old fashioned gifts like teddy bears, roses, a box of chocolates (which might work in small time situations) read out list of Top 10 Gifts Girls LOVE to get.
1. An Engagement Ring/ Commitment
The previous one like we said will seal the deal, this one will hold it forever. Propose her as soon she gets up in the morning with a ring already around her finger while she was sleeping. Women love wearing and flaunting their engagement ring in their ring finger. It does not have to be a huge solitaire studded in platinum, or it can be a plastic ring. Buy something that is perfect considering her sensibilities and not too heavy on your pocket as well. And then you know, you’ve got someone to count on for the rest of your life.
2. A Credit Card Add On
Okay, so this is a very careful one, only go for this when you have realised by all your heart and soul that SHE IS THE ONE, and you are going to marry her, in the long run, of course. Don’t go for it even if you have littlest of a doubt. But then when you gift her a credit card add on, and provided that she accepts your gift blissfully, you have very clearly, intelligently, suavely saved a deal for a lifetime. Congrats.
3. A weekend Getaway
In today’s monotonous life every body is finding a way to escape. People are just trapped in the rut and they cannot find a way out. With friends, family, kids, colleagues, bosses hovering around you you have very little time for yourself and the person you love. If you two are even getting crunched up between time and responsibilities, plan a swift, quick and easy getaway far from the monotony just for you guys. After all, everybody needs a break. It need not be fancy. Little things do the magic. Start off by taking her to a long drive then maybe a candlelight dinner somewhere, then a night stay at a quiet hotel room. This will surely uplift both of you, spiritually as well. And did we say anything about getting closer?
4. A Smartphone or a Laptop
Girls usually don’t love gadgets.But that does mean that they don’t like to POSSESS the latest-est ones in market, more like a fashion/status symbol only. Try gifting her the newest phone in the market, or if you yourself are too brand savvy then probably an iPhone or a Blackberry. Even a Dell or VIAO laptop will do. Gifting an item that comes into everyday option is a safest choice anyhow. And these item beings quite expensive gets her to NOT expect any gift in the coming few days, you bet.
5. A silver waist chain
A very unconventional gift it is. All the way round. But then this gift speaks of intimacy and personal to its very bottom core. If youmake a woman wear an accessory around her waist all the time it obviously epitomises that you are with her all the time 24x7x7x12. This gift will surely bring a smile to her face and will make sure it stays all the way long for all the days that are yet to come, as well. Whenever she will wear that special gift of yours, and when she feels the chain, she is bound to all pinky pink with happiness.
6. A Branded Perfume or a Watch
One stop staple choice to gift when you have absolutely no idea what to gift a lady. You can never under any circumstances go wrong with a perfume or a watch until you’re are a real big time douche bag. Buying fakes, duplicates or even first copies won’t be appreciated by your lady love, mind it. She will never ever use it, and it might happen that she refuses to see you as well, after that. If you are not a rich brat with loaded pockets, never mind!, you can go gift her a Titan, that would do too. But fakes? A big NO! Why just go fancy, love finds a way out through everything.
7. Bag full of Zara Clothing
Hahaha! This one is an exclusive one for sure. Accesories, apparels shoes, bags make girls go CRAZY. For once, but just splurge on her? If you know her choice well then good, else get help from some girlfriend of her and go shopping! Pick out some nice elagant pieces of fashionable clothes for her. Zara and Vero Moda, and Mango and Kazo and the likes have magic sprinkled on their products. Go with dresses, shoes, belts, wallets and bags from different brands if you like. If she’s the fussy choosy types then become the bag holder for the day and let her spin your money! Women, at the end of the day, love to be pampered.
8. Take her out on a Perfect Date
Coffee dates, Lunch dates, Dinner dates, Shopping dates…? Passe! Like the men say, Women are predictable. Break this belief and organise a candle lit dinner on a yacht, in the middle of the road, at some quiet hilly spot, or just roof of your house with a shamiyana in an Arabic style with fruits and candles all around. A bottle of wine will add to the beauty of the occasion. Music is the key, soothing music does wonders. Within an hour she’d be pouring all herself on you!
9. A Ladies Night Out
This surely might sound like an unusual idea but it’ll surely get you in her books. Why? When she’s with you she is obviously not with her girls. And everybody in the whole wide world needs their own personal space. So why not plan and set everything out and send her out with her girlies for a night out she’d remember whole her life! And the advantage : Her girlfriends have their good books prepared to check you in! It does not have to be THAT extravagant. Only few of the women that have a special place in her heart. Book a car for her for the night with a wine shack at the back, make sure it’s a female or a trusted driver. Give her a dress she’d love to wear that day, and don’t forget to buy some goodies for her friends. Women love surprises. Make her reservations in some club on the ladies night day, maybe?
10. A Date for Two at the Spa.
When men are asked what gift they would like to give to their girlfriends they always say girls are pretty easy to guess. Its always a statement that invites a lot of debates but when seen the reality it is a safe choice. But not do something out of the box. Girls love pampering themselves, everybody in the world knows that. So why not take her out on a Spa Date? After all the heavy rut of the day, sweltering heat and pollution and all those hectic schedule, make her feel special. A spa date is a perfect way to relax, get rid of tiredness, enjoy each other’s company and obviously, flirt with each other with all the intimacy you can think of. Also, in these sweltering summers who wouldn’t want to relax? Why not do it differently?
Gifts speak what you cannot. They always work. Trust us.