Top 10 Ways to Handle Rejection in Love

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Rejection is happening all around us all of the time, we cannot always get what we want, be it money, job or love. At some point of our lives, we always get rejected for something. But, knowing how to deal with it, is more important, it helps you recover quickly. Love is a gesture, which everyone wants and even tries to find and get. However, most of the times people are scared of rejection. Rejection is sometimes god’s protection or I should say that it may be difficult to handle the rejection but sometimes it is for good, because you never know that what good is waiting for you outside. Here are some tips to help you move on a rejection, let them help you.

1. Acceptance


Accept the rejection as soon as possible because it is going to be that easy for you to move on. It will make you stronger and will not let rejections shake your whole life in future. It is always good to keep in mind that if this time it doesn’t worked out, it does not means that it will never work later, but it will someday in some unusual manner.

2. Be sure


Be sure that there is someone waiting for you in some part of the world. Don’t make the rejection a reason to reject love again. Your perfect match maybe the person who rejected you but may not be ready yet. Always remember that you deserve love and it is meant to be with the right person at the right time, and this was not the right time.

3. Take it as a lesson


If you were rejected for any reason and then you started feeling low on confidence and made yourself a loner than it is the worst thing you could do to you. Rejections are always for good, they always teach you some lessons about life and world. Stop making yourself miserable but accept the fact and find out the lesson hidden, and use it to learn, this is going to help you in future.

4. Future Control


Don’t let it control your future, you are its boss and you have to design it. Keep yourself going forward, dwelling on the rejections in past will make you unhappy and would not let you enjoy the present. Rejection is a part of life and a rejection will not make you a loser. It never means that you are a failure and you will never achieve anything. It is hard to forget it but avoiding it will help.

5. Re-frame Rejection


Instead of thinking that you were rejected, say that they said no. Its not only about love but anything, when you are rejected, stop feeling rejected because you never were. They only said no to a proposition you made, sometimes, we are accepted and sometimes not.

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