Out of the 365 days of a year, a day that completely outstands other days is Birthday. The day carries lots of memories along and is thus eagerly awaited. This is probably the only day for which planning starts weeks ago. Everybody desires to have a beautiful birthday and thus try their level best to avoid any sort of problem. But the main hiccup lies with the fact of planning for how to have a grand birthday celebration. Most commonly raised question of where to go?? How to celebrate?? What to wear?? Whom to choose between family and friends?? All these together give a headache and so to put an end to your problem here are 10 ways to have a perfect grand birthday celebration.
1. Spending it with grand parents
Our elders are the best gift that God gave us. They save us from our parents anger and scold us when we do something wrong. They fulfill our wishes when our parents say no and go against our parent’s decision just to see a smile on our face. Our grandparents are pillars of our life and guide us through our journey of life. We get so busy in our life some times that we forget them and give importance to some irrelevant things. A birthday celebration with our grandparents is the best way to cherish the day that we took we opened our eyes for the first time and took our first breath.
2. Educating a poor child
Our parents since our childhood have been explaining us about importance of education and relevance that it holds in development of any being. Though we have complete access to education but it is extremely important to realize the essence of it. Education is not just about memorizing some definitions but instead it is to spread the knowledge to everyone. It is about helping people when they need it and most importantly it is about making difference in somebody’s life by helping them fight their difficulties and fight the world. There is no better way to celebrate a birthday than to commit a special act of goodness. And most special act of goodness is enlightening somebody’s world with a candle of education.
According to Indian mythology any work is incomplete without the blessing of our god. When difficulties start to line up and going becomes hard they give us strength to face the worst and encourage us to go on with our lives irrespective of the ups and downs that are waiting for us. Havan is one of the most pure forms of worshipping God and doing it on an occasion like birthday is like a good luck charm. Remembering the Lord who has blessed us with everything that one desires a perfect birthday start is with Havan.
4. Plant a Tree
Nature has given us immensely. It has been our guiding source for a long time. But we have failed to do anything worthy for our mother nature. And now when our nature is on the brink of major mishap it is inevitable for us to accept our fault and reduce the problems we have posed in front of our nature. Only if every one of us to do our bit, we can help our nature. A way in which we can contribute to reduce the problem is by planting tree. This is not much and can be easily done. Even if everyone plants one tree we reduce the pain that mother earth goes through. A birthday is not complete until a good deed is done. By planting tree we can contribute our bit.
5. Visit an orphanage
Why not spread happiness in everybody’s life and make birthday’s memorable by bringing smile on faces of people which stays gloomy for most of the time. People residing in orphanages hardly feel belongingness feeling and with you taking your time out on your important day will not just make them feel happy but will also give you satisfaction of doing something wonderful. It is easy enough to say you are thankful; it is far better to show it by doing a kind deed, something that you did not do yesterday.
6. House party
We have always learned that more we spread our happiness the more we enjoy it. And so a good way to enjoy Birthday is to have a house party and spend your time with all your relatives and that’s when you get a real sense of family. Life seems very gloomy without relatives, they are that part of our life that stand by us and bring a smile on our face when going becomes tough. Our cousins stand up to protect us and with them everything appears just perfect. Thus a grand birthday celebration would be incomplete without them being around.
7. Visit a holy place
The almighty that created us had special plans for us in his mind. He gave us perfect siblings to live with, some great friends, and above all wonderful parents who love us even after all the mess that we make. It is easy enough to say you are thankful; it is far better to show it by doing a kind deed, something that you did not do yesterday. And thus a perfect way to celebrate birthday is to go to a holy place and thank the Lord for everything that he has done since birthday is a perfect time for regeneration spiritually.
8. Visiting old age home
Moving with time people today have forgotten the importance that elders hold in our life. Trying to move ahead with time the family bonds have reduced to ashes. Every day we hear about people leaving their parents in old age homes because they consider them a hindrance in their life. Living a life of disappointment and rejection these people never get to see their children. A birthday celebration with them is probably a perfect way to spend the day which is so important to us. Living life of disappointment and rejection they live a gloomy life but for once they can have a smile on their face if we can spend our time with them.
9. Donating your stuff
By the grace of almighty we have enough with us that we never crave for anything. Our parents fulfill our desires as soon as we say it. We are fortunate enough that we can go out for parties, hang out with our friends, have a leisure time but not everyone has all these things. Unfortunately there are people who do not have everything on their command. There are people who have to empty stomach to bed and have to bear the nature’s scorching heat and brutal cold. They are exposed to lot of pain but that doesn’t mean that we can do nothing to reduce their misery that they go through and the best way to help them out is giving them our old stuff which are not that relevant to us. We have heaps of clothes, books and footwear which we can easily give to them and there is no better occasion than a birthday as it is a time to celebrate birth itself, the joy of life.
10. Going out with friends
Life holds no value without friends. They are not just our partner in crimes but are also our soul mates. In their presence we are not just at our outmost comfort level but also enjoy our life to the fullest. Laughing like maniacs to crying our hearts out to confiding in them with our deepest secrets to doing all bizarre stuff, everything is incomplete without them. They fight the world for us and support us during our hard times. A friend does everything in their power to make us feel the most important person on this earth; the least we can do is celebrate the special day of our life with these special people.