Love is a beautiful emotion that holds two people together. Often, unfortunately the two souls do drift apart, but that does not mean one should stop falling in love. The drifting apart and break ups mean that either something has gone terribly wrong in some way or people are so driven by their ego that they are not willing to clear it out, or there was no love at the first place. Because, I believe that when two people are in love there is no room for ego. Love makes you want to do all that things for your special one that you have always heard of or read about. What can you guys do to impress your girlfriend? Here are ten simple tips. Enjoy!
1. “…. I love you.”
There is nothing more a girl wants to hear from her man. Tell her “I love you” numerous times throughout the day. Text her, call her, mail her, meet her, whatever you do, make it a point to mention these three most loved words in the history of mankind to your girl all the time and make her go ‘awww’. She can never have enough of this line. Five years into a relationship, and I still can’t have enough of it. *Blush*.
2. Show Genuine Concern in Matters regarding her Family
Nothing is more important in an individual’s life than his or her family. Same goes for your girlfriend. She is love with you, but that does not mean she always has to talk romantic and get mushy mushy. Because you are the closest to her, she likes to share every small detail with you. When she talks about her family, don’t be an idiot and be busy somewhere else. Listen to what she says. That’s the least you can do for her. Every girl loves that ‘family’ side in her guy. So when she tells you a member of her family is unwell, you don’t have to go and meet that person. You can put your reassuring arm around her and assure her that everything will be fine. That will be more than enough for her to make her believe that she had chosen the right guy to fall in love with.
3. Arrange Occasional Dates for her
Not the usual dates, I mean. Not the casual outings, or movies, lunch, dinners etc. you go to. Plan a date beforehand. Like a long drive. Or even if it is a dinner, make sure you make advance reservations for a table for the couple. Or take a day off and plan to spend it the way she has always wanted to. Take her to the place where your love story had started, if that is possible. But what is more important than the planning is the execution. So plan out the entire date well, but execute it out even better. A girl seldom remains unimpressed by such sweet efforts from her boyfriend.
4. Make her Something Beautiful
Like a card. Or a scrapbook with all your pictures taken together and the ‘moments’ you two spent together. Or anything she likes. There are some things money can’t buy. A handmade gift for your girl is one of them. Wait, you suck at art and craft? No problem. You Tube is always there at your rescue. Even if you are unable to decide what to make her, you can always google it and come up with something beautiful for your angel.
5. Wait for her after her Work or Classes Get Over
At times, all it takes to get back on track is a few steps. If you guys are in the same city but studying or working at different places, at times wait for her outside her office or college, without informing her beforehand. Imagine that expression of surprise on her pretty face when she sees you outside after a hectic day of work. She will surely be impressed. The idea is to keep reminding her how awesome you are.
6. Write her Sincere Notes
No, not the long love letters where you go on page after page. All I am asking you guys to do is to write small notes and pass them on to her. If you are not in the same class or office, mail it. Or make sure you deliver it through a friend or somebody. Write anything you want to. You know your girl the best, so you know which words of yours will make her go weak in the knee. The next time you talk to her, she might rebuke you a little for the crazy act, but you know deep inside she has loved it.
7. Call her once during the day
Do this even if you have nothing substantial to say. Love does not need words, it needs the effort. And no matter however cheesy it might sound, but at times silence speaks louder than words. You might be busy throughout the day, genuinely busy, but you can find time for a two or three minutes call. Call her and tell her how much you love her, or why you love her. Tell her about that moment when you fell for her. And take it from a girl, NO girl will ever find it weird or embarrassing if their guys call them up and turn a little romantic at any time of the day. It’s even better if you call her at a time when she will be least expecting your call.
8. Pass Secret Flying kisses whenever your Eyes meet
This is a simple, effortless tip to impress your girl even after you have been together for some time now. Your eyes do meet at times. Whenever they do, pass her a flying kiss or even pout your lips and let that little kiss fly out to her with the message of your love. It feels amazing.
9. Wink at her when she is Busy
Obviously, she is your girl. Make her feel so. You guys might be in the same class or in opposite classrooms, or may be working in the same department. Or say, you all have gone out on a family dinner, with both sets of parents. Or a friends outing even. Wink at her whenever your eyes meet, accidentally most of the time. And you can almost see her blush. Doesn’t that make you feel great? Even after all this time you can make her smile and blush like those initial days of your relationship. We girls hate it when guys wink at us. But we equally love it when our man makes that small effort at winking and making us fall for them over again, don’t we?
10. Buy her Flowers at Random Times
Love has no specific timing, and flowers will always be the best way of expressing love. So why not make your girl feel special by giving her the flowers she absolutely loves? It may be a bunch of red roses or orchids or whatever unusual flowers she loves. Make sure you buy them randomly. Suppose you two are out on a short date, buy her flowers. Or in the morning while you are going to work or college, try to visit her place once in a while with a bunch of flowers. This will not only keep your girl happy and impressed all the time, but will also help to keep the spark alive.